I introduce myself to the blogging world in the midst of a nightmare. It's one of those nightmares that you can't quite seem to wake from and continues to get worse.
Several months ago - or has it been years? - Andy started receiving statements in the mail from the Department of Human Services (a misnomer, if I ever heard one); statements for child support. Now it may occur to most of you that Andy doesn't have any children.
So I place my first call to DHS. I was told simply to mark the envelope "Return to Sender" with a note that it was incorrectly addressed. Seemed simple enough. Not two weeks later another statement appears. Another call to DHS. More complicated this time. "You won't receive this mail any more" but "No we can't remove your husband from our system." Really? Your mistake and we have to just live with it? Not likely. The name on this account doesn't even belong to my husband.
June 2009 rolls around with warmer weather, green trees, sunshine, and another statement; this time from the Division of Wildlife informing that Andy's hunting license was suspended - or was it revoked? - because he has failed to pay his child support. Uh, what?! This time we are not going to fight this alone. Andy informs local law enforcement. After some fighting we are promised this will never happen again and the hunting license is back in the game, ready for fall.
Now we fight yet again. This time we fight a war. In January 2010, just a few weeks into Andy's education in the Criminal Justice Academy we were yet again informed of a problem. This time Andy's drivers license is suspended....and has been since July 2009. Since JULY?!
Back on the phone with DHS.
The agent in charge of our 'case' is no longer with them, so we get to start back at the beginning. Here is the problem: No drivers license means Andy cannot complete all the required classes to graduate from the academy. We have about 30 days to get this fixed. That was two weeks ago.
Now we compound the situation: I did the responsible thing - which everyone should do annually - and got copies of our 2010 credit reports. Unfortunately, more information connecting Andy with this low-life, piece-of-scum appears on his credit report. Inaccurate information includes a former address, in a state where Andy has never visited much less lived, and two Collections Agencies.
More phone calls; Experian, Equifax, TransUnion. Oh, wait, I'm not allowed AS HIS WIFE to make any requests on his behalf with creditors or credit bureaus. What? Really? Really. Not without power of attorney. Ridiculous!
And so here I am. Fighting for the man I love. Yet not being allowed to fight.